How can we be happy?

        Every human being's quest for happiness continues.
What do these people say?
I am not happy, Because I don't have enough wealth.
I am not happy, Because I am not famous.
Happiness is not there in becoming rich, by becoming famous, in getting more and more material comforts. Then where is happiness?
        Happiness is a state of mind, nobody can make you happy except yourself.
Then how can we stay happy?
1)George Bernard once said," the secret of being miserable is having
The leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not."
Sometimes we worry about things which are of no great significance.
A man who has no worries can sleep amidst heavy noise, But a worried man cannot get a good sleep even though he sleeps on a soft mattress in a silent area.
So worry less, and stay happy.
2) Staying away from fear also a key for happiness, it's said,' Dhairyam Sarvatra Sadhanam.' Fortune favours the brave only, A fearful man cannot live happily.
Therefore, if we have self confidence and perseverance we will sure to succeed in our life and be happy also.
Face each challenge of life boldly with of course positive outlook.
3) A pessimistic person forgets to laugh and an optimistic person laughs to forget. An Optimistic person lives in peace. Life is precious for an Optimistic.
He never grumbles, He will be happy for what he has obtained. He is content.
Be optimistic. No one can make you happy except you yourself.
  
Not only these three, but there are still many ways to stay happy, but those three are important for each and everyone. Staying with patience, having cordiality, keeping yourself engaged in which hobbies you are interested, taking your decisions, Right living and still etc can make you happy, and keep yourself out of the quest of Happiness.